Saturday, March 02, 2013

HIDDEN FROM THE WORLD

She loves, no questions asked.

There is a place that most people never even heard of, yet is so vital to people’s lives. The place is United Cerebral Palsy located in Port Jefferson Station, NY, and every so often yours truly visits there and meets my daughter.

Situated on the campus of Maryhaven, it is housed in a prefab building that seems like it can become unhinged at any moment. The parking lot has a continuous arrival and departure of small school buses that lower their rear ramps and people sitting in wheel chairs can be lowered to meet the doctor.

Once inside the patients sit with their day-treatment people who have custodial care for the appointment. I am usually the only parent there as my daughter is escorted into the building, where she sees me and makes a break toward me to hug and squeeze me, and even get a pat on the head.

Some of the patients sit quietly as they wait, and some don’t. Some of these poor people have pain that stays with them all day, some have mental anguish and some wail out, uncontrollably, making for nerve shattering experiences as they can’t like my daughter speak.

I often wonder why it is so necessary for people to be born with disabilities, why people who don’t understand have to suffer. Why is it that we have such suffering visited upon a person for life? It takes me to the question: Did God plan this? Why? What is the sin that these people committed from birth?

So I think that God creates and nature takes over, and part of nature is her response to what God creates. It is the mystery of life, just like those that care for the unfortunate, they too are a mystery of life, and maybe God’s hand reaching out.

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