Saturday, December 12, 2009

FRIDAY THE 13TH



You all cringe with Friday the 13th coming around, and we all heard about Black Friday, well here is a new one… ‘Red Friday’! The following was sent to me my baby sister Fran, and I think it is well worth the space.

Red Shirt

“If the red shirt thing is new to you, read below how it went for a man....

Last week, while traveling to Chicago on business, I noticed a Marine sergeant traveling with a folded flag, but did not put two and two together.
After we boarded our flight, I turned to the sergeant, who'd been invited to sit in First Class (across from me), and inquired if he was heading home.
No, he responded
Heading out I asked?
No. I'm escorting a soldier home.
Going to pick him up?
No. He is with me right now. He was killed in Iraq; I'm taking him home to his family.
The realization of what he had been asked to do hit me like a punch to the gut. It was an honor for him. He told me that, although he didn't know the soldier, he had delivered the news of his passing to the soldier’s family and felt as if he knew them after many conversations in so few days.
I turned back to him, extended my hand, and said, Thank you Thank you for doing what you do so my family and I can do what we do.
Upon landing in Chicago, the pilot stopped short of the gate and made the following announcement over the intercom.
"Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to note that we have had the honor of having Sergeant Steeley of the United States Marine Corps join us on this flight He is escorting a fallen comrade back home to his family. I ask that you please remain in your seats when we open the forward door to allow Sergeant Steeley to deplane and receive his fellow soldier. We will then turn off the seat belt sign."
Without a sound, all went as requested. I noticed the sergeant saluting the casket as it was brought off the plane, and his action made me realize that I am proud to be an American.
So here's a public Thank You to our military Men and Women for what you do so we can live the way we do.

Red Fridays.

Very soon, you will see a great many people wearing Red every Friday. The reason? Americans who support our troops used to be called the "silent majority." We are no longer silent, and are voicing our love for God, country and home in record-breaking numbers. We are not organized, boisterous or overbearing.

Many Americans, like you, all our friends, and me simply want to recognize that the vast majority of America supports our troops. Our idea of showing solidarity and support for our troops with dignity and respect starts this Friday -- and continues each and every Friday until the troops all come home, sending a deafening message that ... Every red-blooded American who supports our men and women a far, will wear something red.
By word of mouth, press, TV -- let's make the United States on every Friday a sea of red much like a homecoming football game in the bleachers. If every one of us who loves this country will share this with acquaintances, coworkers, friends, and family, it will not be long before the USA is covered in RED and it will let our troops know the once "silent" majority is on their side more than ever, certainly more than the media lets on.
The first thing a soldier says when asked "What can we do to make things better for you?" is. "We need your support and your prayers." Let's get the word out and lead with class and dignity, by example, and wear something red every Friday.”

One thing we can’t ever do again as Americans: is sending men and women off to battle, and cursing, discriminating and leaving them with a syndrome, one that cause suicide and death for others, because we have forgotten them. Too many of my classmates came back from that war, plagued with Vietnam Syndrome. Their lives, and the lives of their loved ones were forever changed and in many cases destroyed. I have heard the stories, and I am angered. If you believe in the war or not, the result for those that went to fight, some reluctantly, was and still is, devastating.

6 comments:

Jim Pantaleno said...

I'd like to believe the American people now realize that taking out their anti-war frustration on the soldiers sent to do the fighting is dead wrong. Sadly, it's too late for the Viet Nam vets already subjected to this horrible ordeal just for doing what their country asked of them. These are our sons and daughters...we need to support them and direct our anger elsewhere. I don't have a lot of red clothes, but I'll wear one of my wife's dresses if I have to.

Anonymous said...

Mr. Pantaleno,
Would you please send a photo of you in your wife's red dress to the delbloggo? Thanks so much.
SS-I-L

Corinne said...

Yea for Red Fridays! You're the best Joe! Corinne

Jim Pantaleno said...

Dear SS-IL,

Can't add photo to comments but I'll e-mail the requested picture to the Blogmeister.

Jim

Anonymous said...

uhh i think vietnam syndrome was caused more by mortar shellings in 4 foot deep rice paddys than war weary americans. the majority wants out of iraq and about half the country wants out of afghanistan! that makes me happy.

Jim Pantaleno said...

You expect shelling from your enemy...you don't expect (nor deserve) to be villified and spit on when you return to the homeland you defended by your own countrymen, as some Viem-Nam vets were. We all hate the war and the killing, I'm just saying don't take it our on the troops.